[1]When it comes to taking the next step in their relationship, some 63% of people who have moved in with a romantic partner said that their decision was impacted by finances and/or logistics, according to a new report from Realtor.com [2].
"Living with a romantic partner might bring a couple closer together, but it can also magnify potential issues in a relationship," said Clare Trapasso, Executive News Editor, Realtor.com. "While the idea of splitting the rent or mortgage can be very attractive, it's important to have tough conversations with your partner and think through how living together will work before you take the plunge."
Younger respondents were significantly more likely to be persuaded by money/logistics with 80% of Gen Z and 76% of Millennials saying that one or both of these things were a factor in moving in with a romantic partner. This is compared to 56% of Gen X, 44% of Baby Boomers who said the same thing.
Will you be my roommate?
Unsurprisingly, among those who factored finances and/or logistics into their decision to move in with a partner, Gen Z respondents (56%) – who have faced notoriously high housing costs in their lifetime – were the most likely to say that saving money by splitting the rent/mortgage was a contributing factor. Additionally, 70% of all respondents who have moved in with a partner reported that they were able to save money by moving in. The most common amounts saved per month were:
- $1- $500 (27%)
- $501 - $1,000 (20%)
- $1,001 - $2,000 (13%)
- $2,001 - $5,000 (6%)
- More than $5,000 (4%)
A significant percentage of respondents who have moved in with a partner moved into a home that one person already rented (37%) or owned (21%), while 30% decided to start fresh with a new rental and 9% took the leap directly into buying a home together.
Don't go breaking my heart
Not all relationships work out and living with a partner isn't always easy. Forty-two percent of people who have moved in with a romantic partner ended up regretting the move. Reasons included:
- The relationship didn't work out (48%)
- We moved too fast/rushed the decision (31%)
- Realized we weren't compatible for co-living (27%)
- It made it harder to break up (26%)
- When we broke up it was stressful to divide the things that we had purchased together (22%)
- The stress of living together hurt our relationship (22%)
- The logistics of moving out after a breakup were too difficult (19%)
- We broke up soon after moving in together (17%)
"When you're renting or purchasing real estate together, it's important to make sure you're both financially protected," said Trapasso. "For example, if you're buying a home together as an unmarried couple, it may be a good idea to chat with a real estate attorney first to figure out what would happen with the home in the event that you broke up."
To read the full report, including more data and methodology, click here [2].